Breaking the silence on child marriages

In my country, child marriage remains a deeply rooted issue, particularly within certain Apostolic sects. While legal reforms have sought to outlaw the practice, it continues largely unchallenged in some religious communities. What makes this issue especially complex is the internal acceptance of early marriage by the girls themselves, who have been raised in environments that normalize and even sanctify the practice.

From a young age, girls in many Apostolic communities are taught that marriage is their divine duty. Religious indoctrination, often passed down from parents and reinforced by church elders, positions early marriage as a path to spiritual fulfillment. Rejecting a marriage proposal—especially one endorsed by a prophet/ elder—is viewed not only as rebellion but as sin.

The isolation of these communities further entrenches these beliefs. Girls are frequently withdrawn from school once they reach puberty, cutting them off from education and outside influences that might offer alternative paths. With no role models or viable futures beyond marriage, many see becoming a wife as their only option.

This is compounded by social pressures. In some Apostolic sects, a married girl gains status and respect within her community. Families take pride in early marriages, interpreting them as signs of spiritual obedience and familial honor. Conversely, unmarried girls may be shamed or viewed with suspicion.

Most troubling is the absence of a language of resistance. Many girls do not even recognize early marriage as a violation of their rights. Concepts such as bodily autonomy or consent are foreign in these contexts. Without education or exposure to broader societal norms, suffering is normalized, and questioning it is often met with fear and guilt.

Religious leaders wield enormous power in these communities. Their words are considered divine law, and when they decree a marriage, it is rarely challenged. The promise of salvation or spiritual protection often outweighs any personal misgivings a girl may have.

This cycle continues because the girls who are married off young eventually become mothers who teach their daughters the same beliefs. Breaking this cycle requires more than laws—it requires targeted, respectful community engagement. Campaigns must work alongside former sect members, local leaders, and educators to introduce new narratives that uphold both faith and the fundamental rights of girls.

We need not forget that behind every early marriage is a silenced voice and a stolen childhood. It is time to listen, to educate, and to empower these young girls to envision a different future—one shaped not by coercion or fear, but by choice and opportunity.

Join the Movement

This is a call to action for civil society, policymakers, educators, and faith leaders. Protecting girls is not an attack on religion—it is a defense of human dignity and rights. We must continue to strengthen and amplify the voices of survivors and challenge the structures that enable this injustice.