Denial of misogyny + “misandry” = Migraine! And they wonder why women don’t like men

Well this is just great! Going through another painful scroll on Quora (why the fuck hasn’t this site shut down already?!) and I wanna fucking die!

The question on Quora was “Why are men always making mean remarks towards women?”. The answer? Well, according to this guy:

”They don’t. This looks like an auto-generated, gender-based question.”

Apparently calling out misogyny is “gender-based”, meanwhile complaining about all women being gold diggers and man-haters isn’t.

”It’s actually an insult by implication, which is far more insidious and more likely to be TOXIC FEMININITY.”

Wow, calling out sexist men is an INSULT now? Toxic femininity? Are you fucking serious?! Sounds like YOU’RE the one making up a bunch of bullshit to make your side look good! You’ll see what I mean further down.

”Firstly, don’t use absolutes like “always” and ‘very’ in your question, because that’s plainly wrong and it takes a single counter-example to prove that.”

Aww, isn’t that cute? Men hate it when a woman uses absolutes against men, yet they don’t have a problem when they use it against women. Gotta love the hypocrisy. More on that later.

”Secondly, people will treat you based on how you treat them first. Women make L-O-T-S of mean remarks to men, and nobody seems to care or point those out.”

Lol what a fucking joke! Never in my fucking life have I ever seen or heard of a woman making mean remarks to a man FIRST! Let me twist the narrative for you, dear sir. Since you’re acting like a child, I’ll act like one too. Men will make tons and tons and tons (did I forget to mention TONS?) of mean and nasty remarks towards women, and back in the day, it was accepted, it was simply brushed off as “boys will be boys” while the girls are undermined and silenced if they dared to speak up.

Girls were also threatened with violence, rape, and even death from boys if they refused to comply. And we STILL are! Now please, do tell me, did a woman ever threaten to rape or murder you?

”And/or the sisterhood applauds the gender-based bullying as ‘empowerment’.”

What you fail to acknowledge is that women’s so-called mean remarks is not bullying at all. If a man does something wrong to a woman, then a woman has the right to fight back! You make absolute bullshit stereotypes and then you have the absolute NERVE to call women’s empowerment “bullying”!

”So the guys might just be returning the favour. Why aren’t you outraged when evil sexism happens by women? See examples below.”

So what you’re saying is misogyny isn’t real, and if it IS real, then it’s the WOMAN’S FAULT? You insist that all women are evil because we make “sexist remakes against men” yet it’s acceptable when men make sexist remarks against women all under the delusion that they’re “returning the favour”? There is a thing called POWER, and who’s the one in power? MEN, particularly straight, white, upper class men. You don’t see men of power’s lives being at stake or constantly threatened of rape and murder, do you?

”Moronic questions like this are simply trying to reinforce the untrue and MISANDRIST trope of “all women are victims and all men are predators”.”

Apparently calling out misogyny is “moronic” and nothing but lies. How the fuck is it misandrist to claim that women are victims? That would instead be misogynistic, claiming that women are incapable of fending for themselves. Plus I don’t know any single feminist who actually thinks that way. You’re just mad that there are tons of proof that the majority of rapists and murderers are men and you’re offended by it because apparently it makes your gender look bad, but of course, men cannot be the bad guy, can they? Oh no, it’s always the woman’s fault.

”Ironically, it implies that women have no agency, and are too frail to fight for themselves. Women ARE predators too - they attack in packs though.”

Which is ironic of YOU to say because you’re proving my point! “Women ARE predators too - they attack in packs though”, isn’t it just like a man? Using insults and negative connotations toward women to glorify men and demonize women. Dude, you might as well just say that we have cooties and you’re afraid of strong women, because the more you drivel on, the more you sound like a toddler who dropped his ice cream! Also good thing that we “attack” in packs! That scares the little pansy “macho” wannabes away!

”Examples of mean women saying publicly mean, blatantly sexist stuff and being proud of their toxic bigotry and promotion of violence against children:”

Oh boo-boo, did you get your wittle fee-fee’s hurt? Funny how you cry about we’re soooooo mean by saying the most “blatantly sexist stuff” and “promotion of violence against children”, yet here you are justifying your hatred of women and girls. Again, gotta hypocrisy! Okay then, let’s see the “mean, sexist stuff” you claim is so bad:

Exhibit A

”Gen z and millennial men have all the toxic masculinity of boomer men but none of the life skills. Like they’re still punching holes in dry wall but now they don’t know how to fix it”

This is not sexist at all. She’s just explaining how bad parenting and parents’ inability to teach their children how to work to provide for themselves can affect them negatively in life. She’s also addressing toxic masculinity in ways that can be presented as harmful such as the suppression of emotions and unhealthy amounts of anger to the point where it endorses violence. Let’s go to the next one.

Exhibit B

”sorry for Gen x erasure here. idk Gen X doesn’t really matter to me really but hi Winona, and hi Ethan Hawke.”

How is this sexist? This comment has nothing to do with sexism or better yet “misandry”. Therefore, it is relevant. Moving on…

Exhibit C

”a woman wears a white t-shirt that says in all caps “Boys are stupid, throw rocks at them””

Dude, let me clarify this to you. This is only a JOKE. It is a joke from a book titled the exact same name written by Todd Goldman, a MALE author. Specifically it is called self-deprecation humor, meaning he doesn’t truly mean what he’s saying. I myself am a self-deprivation humorist. I often use misogyny in the form of sarcasm, often to mimic and mock the ideals of male supremacists. Only problem I’m seeing here is that you can’t take a joke.

I’ll be moving to another comment, that’s equally infuriating but mercifully much shorter:

”The meanest people I’ve met in my life were women. They can be very nasty and evil when they don’t get their way.”

Why is it only women who are mean when they don’t get their way? What about the men? Or are men always this “nIcE” and “iNnOcEnT” to the mEaN and HoRrIbLe women? Or better yet, is men’s meanness “justified” because of the “horrible women”?

”Men are supposed to just move on and suck it up when we don’t get what we want, but women like to blame men when they don’t get what they want. How hypocritical is that?”

Funny how you say that, when I see the exact opposite. Apparently every time a woman holds a shitty man accountable, she’s “blaming men because they didn’t get what they want”. Meanwhile, when a man makes accusations against a woman, he is instantly believed and the woman in question is immediately penalized. Even worse, women are the ones who are told to suck it up. And even if they were believed, they would be blamed for it! “What were you wearing?” anyone? The true hypocrisy is when men play victim all the fucking time meanwhile outright demonizing women to their advantage, and when a woman dares to speak up, they are silenced and shamed. Because men always have to twist women’s words to make them at fault!

”That’s why l truly appreciate the occasional woman that’s nice and sweet.”

If almost every single woman you meet is an asshole, chances are, YOU might be the asshole!

“video of woman trying to poison man by tampering with his food”

Oh sure, because the action of one woman must CLEARLY mean that ALL women are evil and horrible.

“They are trying to help them wake up before it is too late, they notice women insult other women to get through to them, so they are doing the same thing.”

Once again, it’s ALWAYS the woman’s fault and the men are the ones that are “HeLpInG”!

”You just cannot directly tell women “Wake up, you are delusional, your standards are too high, so not a single one of us can keep up with you, your attitude is too smug which makes you unattractive to the point where we don't want you, stop sleeping around so much with badboys, or it is going to destroy your ability to feel legitimate love, for when you do find Mr. Right, because it is going to make you take his heart for granted as he pours all his love and care going out of his way for you, but you don't have any in return to give back, nor even appreciate him going out of his way for you, thinking about incomes of money and your own selfish desires are more important than reciprocating that love back, and having a family, as this is going to make you single and alone for the rest of your life, because no respectable man wants a woman like that, as this will only create more Men Going Their Own Way(MGTOW), instead of Men Going Out Of Their Way(MGOOW), specifically for you, as you are only pushing then away into joining MGTOW the more you keep up with this, as we don't want to see you miserable living with cats and drinking box wine till into old age, please stop this behavior or you will have doomed yourselves into a life of misery”.”

What’s your point of not directly telling us when you’re ALREADY telling us the exact same shit on the fucking internet?! This is nothing new! Let’s break it all down, one by one:

”you are delusional, your standards are too high, so not a single one of us can keep up with you”

Not true at all. Funny how men say we have high standards yet they’ll whine about women being fat because it’s not their “preferences”. “We can’t keep up with you”, then don’t fucking date us!

”your attitude is too smug which makes you unattractive to the point where we don't want you”

No, it’s not OUR “attitude” that’s the problem. It’s YOURS. Your insecurities over a strong and confident woman threatens you so much to the point that you call us “unattractive” to make yourselves feel better.

”stop sleeping around so much with badboys, or it is going to destroy your ability to feel legitimate love, for when you do find Mr. Right, because it is going to make you take his heart for granted as he pours all his love and care going out of his way for you, but you don't have any in return to give back, nor even appreciate him going out of his way for you, thinking about incomes of money and your own selfish desires are more important than reciprocating that love back, and having a family, as this is going to make you single and alone for the rest of your life, because no respectable man wants a woman like that”

I don’t know many women who “sleep around” with “bad boys”. Most of us don’t even know they’re bad, and NEITHER DO YOU! Have you ever considered the fact that many of us have been abused as children, so how do you expect us to feel “legitimate love” if we weren’t given it?! If you think you’re the “Mr. Right” who will treat us right, you’re sorely mistaken! You don’t give a shit about legitimate love! You only care about yourself and having a mommy do your every whim! And us “not giving any return” is actually just standing up to your bullshit because you’re an overall shitty partner!

It’s so funny how you think women only care about money and themselves yet here you are only thinking yourself and begging to have a mommy take care of you! Because deciding to not have a family and instead trying to care for ourselves is so SELFISH of us all because we don’t center our lives around you! And yet it’s a BAD THING that we’ll be single and alone, yeah like that’s the best threat you can come up with? Because no man wants an independent confident free-thinking woman with boundaries? So that’s a bad thing for US? Sounds like a you problem, sir.

“this will only create more Men Going Their Own Way(MGTOW), instead of Men Going Out Of Their Way(MGOOW), specifically for you, as you are only pushing then away into joining MGTOW the more you keep up with this, as we don't want to see you miserable living with cats and drinking box wine till into old age, please stop this behavior or you will have doomed yourselves into a life of misery”

We’re not “pushing you away”. We don’t even WANT YOU HERE! Yet you won’t take no for an answer without acting like a little cunt about it! The more you say it as a threat, the more desperate and insecure you sound. I’d rather live with cats and drink myself into a stupor than have to watch my life shrivel away to a narcissistic prick like you! If you think me making the choice to reject you in favor of my cats is a “life of misery”, you can go fuck yourself! I will not stop this “behavior” and you cannot fucking make me! The only people who are getting upset over this is you!

”They would never listen when you just explain it, they only understand when you insult them instead. Well, some of them do, other's are stubborn and are hard of hearing, as men try to warn them before it is too late. If insults get through to a few to wake up, then at least that is a few who will be happy before becoming miserable.”

And by explain, you mean gaslight and mansplain to the point of annoying women to death! No fucking wonder we don’t want to listen to you! What’s your point anyway? Your explanations are nothing but insults to begin with! The reason we’re “stubborn” is because YOU are stubborn, you simply refuse to take no for answer and as usual you will threaten us just to insert your power over us! You’re not “warning” us, you’re just begging for attention so that we might pick you because your parents had enough of your shit and demanded you to move out and get a job!

“Wake up”? Us? No, no no no no, if anyone there needs to “wake up”, it’s YOU! You are so desperate to beg us to get married “to YOU” that you have to manipulate us by saying it will make us “happy”, otherwise we would be “miserable”. The only person I know who’s going to be miserable is YOU. You’re upset that we don’t want you so you, like many other insecure men, try to project your own self-loathing onto us just to make us feel guilty. That’s not going to work, because we’re much smarter than to listen to a little bridge troll like you!

”This is not a trick, it is the truth, but I highly doubt a lot of them will listen, as we have to watch them grow old and miserable, while lying to themselves that they are happy not having no man”

Yeah fucking right! Y’all say that but we know who the true miserable folks are. If you think we’re going to listen to you or your little flying monkeys, don’t count on it! You can say all you want how we’re “lying to ourselves” over how we don’t need a man and we’ll be “miserable without one”, yet you won’t admit that we simply just don’t want you and you cannot handle our rejections. Also married women are far more miserable compared to single women. Go cry about it!

”question though, if you are so happy about not having a man, why is there sadness behind your eyes when you say it, why are you drinking so heavily as if you got your heart broken, although you have not been with a man in over a decade, and why do you feel the need to tell everyone over the social media, as if fishing for sympathy?”

Aww, are you projecting your insecurities on the internet again, little buddy? If you think we’re “sad” because we are “lonely”, think again! There are plenty of other reasons why we might be sad. Could be diagnosed with depression, could be experiences of PTSD, or what about trying to recover from an abusive relationship or a drug addiction? What about if one of our family members or friends have DIED? Yet you’re not sad about ANY OF THAT! You’d rather stick to the delusion that “women are only sad because they don’t have a man”!

We drink “heavily” because we like drinking and are undergoing an addiction, not over some stupid man! Have you fallen for those r/asablackman shitposts where men pose as women so they can go “where have all the good men gone?” just to further their anti-woman agenda? Better yet, aren’t YOU “fishing for sympathy” on Quora, or is that “different for guys”?

”Those are not the eyes and face expressions of people who are over men, those are the eyes of someone who keeps smacking their hands on their cheeks getting subconsciously lonely, to snap themselves out of it, trying to fight the need to soul search, to fill in the void of the human hearts desire to be and feel loved, torchuring themselves, drowning in tears for the need to be with someone, trying to push it down by getting drunk to try to forget about it.”

You poor thing. That sounds so ODDLY SPECIFIC. Are you okay, little buddy? Are you hurt because a woman rejected you because she’s not interested in dating? Are you this easily fragile that you have to go around and manipulate women’s feelings and experiences to appease your agenda? Are you projecting your own insecurities onto women to make us look bad? Because all that you said sounds far more like what YOU’RE going through. You want a binky, wittle baby?

”You can try to fool others into thinking your are happy and carefree, but your face expressions tell a different story entirely, it is the eyes and dark circles, although you are wearing makeup, you can still see the eyelids drooping as no makeup can cover that up, no matter what.”

If you can see my dropping eyelids and dark circles round my eyes, sounds like you are stalking me and other women! You’re saying the exact same thing that describes your OWN INSECURITIES, yet you refuse to admit it! You try to force us to admit we’re sad because we’re so-called lonely without a man, yet here you are still obsessing over the fact that a woman rejected you! Funny how you say our makeup can’t hide what we feel, yet you don’t realize that your WORDS can’t hide what YOU feel!

Dude, do yourself a favor and get some fucking therapy! We already told you how we feel and your refusal to accept that is YOUR problem, not ours!