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Domestic Violence is still not the heinous crime in India..!



Photo Credit: Journalist Dhara Patel

Journalist Dharaa Patel

According to the National Commission for Women (NCW), the number of domestic violence complaints in India has fluctuated since 2019: 


• 2019: 2,960 complaints out of 19,730 total cases 

• 2020: 5,304 complaints out of 23,722 total cases, during the COVID-19 lockdown 

• 2021: 6,633 complaints out of 30,864 total cases 

• 2022: 6,970 complaints out of 30,957 total cases 

• 2023: 6,304 complaints out of 28,811 total cases 





According to the National Family Health Survey-5 (NFHS-5), 29.3% of married Indian women between

the ages of 18 and 49 have experienced domestic or sexual violence, and 3.1% of

pregnant women in that age group have experienced physical

violence. However, only a small percentage of victims seek help



The Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act (PWDVA) of 2005 allows women to seek help from a domestic violence protection officer for dowry harassment. 



Amruta Subhash, a renowned actress in Marathi and Hindi Cinema, gained acclaim for her work in Lust Stories 2, Gully Boy, and Bombay Begums. In a roundtable discussion, she shared her experience of being beaten up by her on-screen husband in a TV Show. Despite her discomfort, the producer insisted on the scenes for higher TRP. This revelation made her realize the sad reality of society where violence against women boost ratings.



If I were to share my observations, a man's mother would discredit a girl for rejecting him during the procedures of an arranged marriage in a big city like Ahmedabad. If this infuriated him, he would then be sure to label her as being out of her ethnic group. It's all too typical to hear girls ask for too much in marriage, so why can't she? Why are you supporting these girls if you don't think they meet your criteria? Many illiterate girls are willing to assist you with domestic chores. They are unable to accept the fact that the girl of their choice will reject them and they do not want to make any concessions. Even Nevertheless, they live in a time when women follow their hearts. Middle-aged men and women preach to girls and their parents in community WhatsApp groups and on social media pages to be cultural and marry middle-class boys because they are cultural. Is it? Therefore, there need to bean end to middle class families' incidents of dowry harassment and domestic abuse.  Regretfully, such drivel and so-called social activism are unchecked. We can expect the worst from son if his mother treats the girl in this manner!       

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