It will take more than a man to stop me!
Oct 14, 2025
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I am not doing any job at the moment and currently pursuing an M.phil Degree and currently I have a lot of time at my hand. Now when you don't have a compulsion , you will have a bad schedule especially the sleeping ones. I sleep when the day breaks and wake up somewhere around noon. I am aware of the fact this is quite a messed up sleeping schedule but this is not important at the moment , I will tell you where I want your attention. I got a call and I was having a conversation and the person said something to me that startled me for a second and disturbed me later to the point that I ended up crying. Be mindful of the words you say especially when you know how much it can hurt the person. Anyhow after the situation turned gloomy I decided to drop all the things that I had to do at night which is at the moment my day and watch something on the phone and sleep. Then there was this one thought, a thought so powerful that I am writing this now and carrying on with the usual routine. And the thought was '' It will take more than a man to stop me from doing what I have to do and what I must do'' (it was not a man on the phone) and that thought made me jump out of the bed and I started doing what I must do. Over the years I have done and experimented with multiple things and I do not regret experimenting with any of them. Though there is standard definition of success government job in the early twenties , with regards to that I am not successful though my definition of success varies from what they attribute as success. I do not have a job which means I am not financially independent but just for the sake of it , I cannot put myself in an office where I do not even want to work. My life is going at its own pace, maybe things at some point starts making sense but while I am in the process of becoming I do not want people to come up to me and tell me Oh You Bought this ? That is from your parent's money. Go find a job for yourself. why are you sitting idle at home? though all you dared do was to chose happiness even at the times when there is a mess in your plate. You dared cherish the life you had. You tried holding onto hope. and when they are asked to acknowledge your struggles or tough times , they make fun about how there really is nothing to be struggling about. These words come from the people who did graduation and then landed a job and had not faced rejections from multiple sources. How cruel is that you have supported them through their thick and thins and prayed for them and when it's time to reciprocate they come with truck load of advices to tell you how should go about life. Well, to their knowledge I know a great deal about life than they do, I know how to be kind even when things are tough. I do not want to be bitter or rude as their is no point in that, it will do nothing but will make my life living hell. I want to be at peace. But people really will make in life and then make sure everybody knows that they made it. Though life is long and you and I will hear much more than this and when you do hear this kind of stuff remember THEY HAVE NOT LIVED YOUR LIFE! THEY ARE NOT WORTHY TO HEAR ABOUT YOUR LIFE EITHER! HELD YOUR HEAD HIGH!BUILD A LIFE FOR YOURSELF!NEVER GIVE THEM THE POWER TO STOP YOU FROM DOING WHAT YOU ARE MEANT TO DO!
Audios! May you have a day free from all the trashy advices.
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