Let Go and Let God - Rising from Desperation to Divine Direction, By Amb. Maryben Omollo

Introduction - A Tuesday of Transformation

On 26 April 2022, Ambassador Maryben Omollo shared a deeply personal reflection that resonated with many navigating the complexities of ambition, identity, and faith. In her post titled “Motivation Tuesday,” she opened up about a season in her life when she believed that her destiny was tied to the approval and attention of others—particularly influential people she admired. Her story is one of emotional vulnerability, spiritual awakening, and the power of surrender. It is a reminder that true transformation begins not with people, but with purpose—and not with striving, but with surrender.

The Trap of People-Pleasing

Less than two years before her post, Omollo found herself in a cycle of people-pleasing. She would meet powerful men and women—individuals she believed held the key to her next breakthrough. In her mind, they were the gatekeepers of her destiny. Driven by this belief, she made herself constantly available. She responded immediately to their calls, suppressed her own needs, and tried to be everything they wanted. She didn’t allow herself to cough, rest, or say no. Her identity became entangled in their validation. But when those same people went silent, she was left in emotional turmoil. The silence triggered desperation, depression, and even self-harm. She had placed her hope in human hands—and when those hands withdrew, she felt lost.

A Divine Shift in Focus

In the midst of her despair, Omollo made a pivotal decision - she turned to God. She asked Him to rewrite her story, to redirect her path, and to restore her sense of worth. And He did. She describes how, in response to her prayer, God brought wise people into her life—not just from her immediate surroundings, but from the East, West, North, and South. These were not just connections—they were divine appointments. People who saw her, supported her, and helped raise her to new heights. This shift—from seeking validation from people to seeking direction from God—became the turning point in her journey.

Letting Go of Control

One of the most powerful lessons in Omollo’s story is the importance of letting go. Letting go of the need to be liked. Letting go of the fear of being forgotten. Letting go of the belief that others hold the key to your future.

“In business, work, life—whatever you’re doing—ask God. Just ask Him, and He will prove Himself to you.”

This is not a passive surrender. It is an active trust. It is choosing to believe that your life is guided by a higher purpose, and that your worth is not dependent on anyone’s approval.

A Lesson in Identity and Faith

The lesson from Ambassador Omollo’s experience is clear:

Your destiny is not in the hands of people—it is in the hands of God. When you place your identity in the opinions of others, you become vulnerable to their silence. But when you root your identity in divine purpose, you become unshakable.

This lesson applies to every area of life:

1. In business - Don’t chase people—build purpose.
2. In relationships - Don’t beg for attention—value yourself.
3. In leadership - Don’t perform for applause—lead with authenticity.
4. In faith - Don’t rely on human approval—trust divine timing.

Point of Reflection

Take a moment to reflect:

1. Have you ever tied your self-worth to someone else’s validation?
2. Are you constantly available for others, but unavailable to yourself?
3. What would it look like to let go of control and trust a higher plan?
4. Who are the people in your life that God may have sent to guide and uplift you?

These questions invite us to examine where we’ve placed our hope—and whether it’s time to shift our focus.

Conclusion - Let Go and Let God

Ambassador Maryben Omollo’s story is a powerful reminder that the journey to purpose is not about chasing people—it’s about aligning with God. It’s about releasing the pressure to perform and embracing the peace that comes from trust. So this week, and every week, let go of the need to be everything for everyone. Let go of the fear that your future depends on someone else’s favour. And let God. Because when you do, He will prove Himself faithful—bringing the right people, the right opportunities, and the right timing for your rising.