Men like him are the main reason why some women hate men

Oh dear fucking god! We have another delusional men’s rights activist who makes women’s opposition towards shitty men is “misandrist”. And oh boy is it gonna be a doozy!

Unfortunately I won’t be able to commentate on everything said on the article as part of it has been blocked off, but whatever. I’ve still got quite a bit to cover, which is good because the less I hear from these woman-hating pricks, the better. Anyway, let’s get started:

”There are a lot of women out there who don’t really like men. They wear it bravely on their chest and are apparently above reproach with their disdain.”

Gee, I wonder why?

“i had a crush on this guy for awhile, he got robbed at gunpoint, saw him that same day and he was narrating it the started crying with his mouth wide open. Never gotten the ick so

fast

10:56 AM • 5/17/24 @DefiantLs

Chey *

@nOcheyd men, it's okay to cry and be vulnerable. we're

all human

4:47 AM • 5/18/24”

She was writing this out of irony. What the hell are you talking about?

”Kitsu: Men deserve to be loved and treated right

Starscream: Said no female that actually means it ever”

Sir, this right here is one of the reasons why women hate men. We try to sympathize with men’s issues, but men have the AUDACITY to blame their own problems on women instead of making effort to improve their lives! Eventually we’re going to get sick and tired of these men unwillingly wanting to hold themselves accountable and we will leave them on their own. We have lives too, and we’re not going to cater to someone who blames his own problems on everyone but himself!

Also, men calling women females pretty much explains their lack of self-awareness.

”Male tears”

I believe this is foreshadowing here.

”Men don’t want a loving woman. They want a patient woman. Because patience doesn’t require them to change; love does.”

I absolutely agree with what she says, and the fact that he’s offended over being called out for his shitty behavior makes it all the more ironic.

”Never date an insecure man. He will punish you for being pretty.”

Another sign of foreshadowing that we’ll hear from the dude in question.

”’Morherhood is a trap, marriage is a bad deal’ Feminist Corinne Maier on learning to be selfish”

Alright, ladies, here it comes… Male fragility starts in 3, 2, 1…

”I mean, holy shit, the lady above is a published author. The cliched, baseless, sensationalized pop feminism they like to harp on about on TikTok and Twitter is rampant, and there’s nothing especially intelligent, life-changing, or inspiring about them. They just hate men, saying we’re trash, patriarchy stuff, we’re worthless cause we exist, and the usual shit no one seems to call them out on.”

At least these women actually bother to make money and do something with their lives, what’s YOUR excuse? Do you seriously think women don’t have jobs?

What exactly makes YOU “intelligent, life-changing, and inspiring” as you call it? You sound upset over a group of women who decided they don’t need a man to survive on their own. It’s ironic how you undermine hard-working women who had enough with shitty men as “man-haters” and “hate men for simply existing”, meanwhile you men prove our point by bitching and moaning about how horrible all women are.

What do you mean by “no one seems to call them out”? I see WAY TOO MANY hateful comments and articles that unnecessarily bash women for it! Are you really that fucking stupid?!

”Men need therapy because that patriarchy and machismo is wild behavior”

”Men raised by single moms either respect women deeply or hate them. There is no in-between”

”Sometimes even the men:

”I’m on the war against men. Just stating that! I identify as an XY human male! What I do aesthetically is MY CHOICE!””

I love how the “man-hating” feminists he’s so desperate to give a bad reputation and hold a card against sees through his bullshit and hit where it hurts the most: his fragile ego.

He even failed to understand how a woman-respecting man could point out men’s shitty behavior towards women.

”Whenever they parade themselves on social media to declare that they’re hit with praise and puff pieces about how they’re so brave and dismantling toxic masculinity!”

First of all, check your fucking grammar, dude. Second, women don’t go around “parading themselves” as you call it. We’re simply pointing out the blatant misogyny that goes around in our society. You’re going around cherry-picking certain posts and comments on social media just so you can desperately prove that all women are evil! You accuse women of hating men just to put ourselves on pedestals, yet you’re demonizing women for the sake of using the halo effect on your fellow men, especially the shitty ones!

“Are you a young single man feeling a little lonely these days?

Does this affect you?

Wondering why you feel like you’re really trying your best, yet just by your existing…”

Oh boo-hoo, let me play a sad song for you on the world’s smallest violin! (Hope you guys got the SpongeBob reference) Gee, I am COMPLETELY clueless why girls would rather kill themselves or suffer from homelessness or any other possible bad thing that could happen to a woman than hang out with YOU! (sarcasm)

Now here are the comments, including OP’s:

”Most women seem to view men on a scale from disdain to hate. There is clear evidence of this all over Medium and elsewhere, yet you continue offering dating advice to men. As I've stated before, my dating/relationship days were in the 1980s/90s when things were very different. If I were a young guy in today's environment I would stay well out of it (as so many young guys seem to do). Why attempt to date people who hate you? (Yes, I may be generalising, as so many women do about men.)”

While I do agree with the notion that why would you want to date someone you hate, it’s idiotic to assume that all women do is make “generalizations about men”, which is ironic as the men in question are doing the same regarding women.

OP’s reply follows:

”And eye for an eye makes the world go blind. When they go low we go high.”

Here, let me translate this for you:

BoYs RuLe aNd GirLs DrOoL! (thumbs ears) Nyah-nyah-nyah-nyah nyaaah nyaaah! (blows raspberry)

”I'm not sure why you mention the saying "an eye for an eye". When, after an amicable divorce some years ago, I discovered women's animosity towards men, I chose not to pursue further relationships. This wasn't out of bitterness but simply a reasonable response to the situation.

If anything, the level of women's animosity towards men is worse now that it was 15 years ago but I simply accept it as part of life. For me, it doesn't really matter anymore but I'm surprised that some (about a third?) of young men continue trying their luck.

Recently, a guy on Medium complained about so many women saying no to his approaches. I suggested that the approaches were merely a waste of time but that his problems are likely to arise when a woman says yes.”

Why is it that when women wish to avoid men, we are “man-haters” yet when men do the same, they’re “reasonable”? Something doesn’t add up. Also, have you ever wondered WHY there are more women out there who “hate” men?

And finally, the very last paragraph just states this:

”eww, wOmEn! tHeY’rE nOtHiNg BuT a WaStE oF TiMe! tHeY hAvE cOoTiEs aNd ThEy hAtE mEn! i KnOw tHiS cAuSe i hAd a FiGhT WiTh mY eX-WiFe sO tHeReFoRe aLL wOmEn aRe tHe sAmE!”

Imagine being THIS closed-minded.

”Great piece Trey - so many good observations and so much to agree with. I work with a young woman who loudly proclaims that she hates men in front of male members of staff - of course she gets away with it and thinks it's perfectly acceptable - it's more than a little tiresome. This piece made me think of her and all the other women like her.”

Oh sure, because apparently all women go around “stalking” men wherever they go and scream about how much they hate men because we have NOTHING BETTER TO DO with our lives! Am I right, fellas?

“Don’t let her get away with it!”

(blows whistle) RAPE!!!!

”Has your employer no policy starting with the words: "XYZ Ltd has a policy of zero tolerance towards......."?

You will discover the double standard of such a policy if you state, to female colleagues, that you hate women. The speed at which you'd be ejected would be awesome. (With the UK's national speed limit of 70mph, you could never, legally, experience such speed on our public roads!)”

Have YOU no policy about how systemic oppression works? The REAL double standard I actually see is how there are shit loads of men that get away with misogyny and sexually assaulting women, yet when women dare to speak up against it, we are instantly attacked, dismissed, and accused of lying!

What the fuck does MPH have to do with discrimination? You linking speed limit with sexism is not funny. Get a better joke! So you guys just openly admit that you actually hate women? If so, then you DESERVE to be ejected!

This next motherfucker I’m going to break down one by one, so please bear with me:

”So I'm coming here from having a worthless, time-wasting argument with a woman on Instagram, where a poster posed the hypothetical: "What would you do tomorrow if every man was taken by aliens?"

There were thousands of posts of women mostly saying, "Finally feel safe to go jogging" or "Finally feel safe to take a walk" or many, many more like, "Being taken by aliens isn't enough, hopefully the aliens will eat them so they never come back!" ...”

“Worthless, time-wasting argument with a woman”? Because you being ignorant of systemic misogyny must be women’s fault because we obviously cannot be trusted! Imagine being this fucking blind over the struggles us women have to go through and assume all we’re doing is hating men for the sake of attention! I’ve seen far more posts and comments about men wishing women never existed and hoping we all die and rot in hell, and the reception regarding that tells an entirely different story!

“Every now and then, a woman would say, "I'd mourn for my husband " or father or brother---and she would get FLAMED by all these other women saying like, "you must be a man in disguise."”

Because you don’t fucking know if the user is a man or a woman or whoever! But sure, do tell me how women are so bad by making cherry-picking statements to justify your case.

“So I stupidly defended a man getting flamed for making a comment like, "Not all men are bad," and a woman told him that "He's just the kind of man who makes women wish all men would disappear, and the fact that he was offended by this hypothetical proved it."”

There’s your first mistake. If you defend a bigot, you’re going to get what’s coming to you. And you’re proving women’s point by making generalizations about women. Speaking of which…

“I asked her if she would ever made a broad generality about any other group besides men---"i.e. certain members of this group are bad, therefore I would react with glee and rejoicing if every member of that group was permanently removed from the Earth ..."

She refused to answer that question, and used every single standard in these situations: "I must be guilty of SAing women or I wouldn't defend this guy ..." "I shouldn't be mad at women for hating men, I need to hold other men accountable ..." "This is just a hypothetical---a joke really---why am I taking it so seriously?" "The fact that this bothers me proves I need therapy" "Why am I so fragile and emotional, after all, only a fragile man with a fragile ego would be bothered by something like this?"

And the truth is, I guess I shouldn't be bothered by all this misandric garbage on social media, but I absolutely am. The stupid "bear" hypothetical which was so popular last year, which still constantly crops up as a social media zinger ("This is why women choose the bear") drove me CRAZY.”

Except that she DID answer your question but you refused to accept it! And you attempting to use every apparent insult in the book to make women look bad and justify your hatred of women does not help your case either! It’s ironic how you get offended by “misandry” yet you’re totally ignorant of the rampant misogyny being accepted nowadays just because it isn’t aimed towards your demographic! You whining about these arguments more and more and more keeps proving our fucking point, yet you STILL can’t get it through that thick-headed skull of yours!

You are so desperate to win the fucking argument that you’ll do or say anything to make your sex look better in comparison! And the fact that these arguments you deem to be “cards women pull” including the bear, drive you crazy just proves that you cannot handle a debate! You cannot handle a strong-minded woman who has standards and calls you out on your BS when necessary, because in your mind, only men can be right because they’re so LoGiCaL and all women are eMoTiOnaL, aren’t we? The fact that she knows all your excuses in the book and breaks you the very moment your little insecure mind is shattered is amusing.

“I'm NOT single, but I was for a long time, years ago, but my God, if I was, and I was younger, I don't know what I'd do. I certainly would stop trying to date. I honestly think it even affects my relationship with my wife, to a degree, because anytime we have an argument, I have this feeling of creeping dread or doubt, like, "Do modern women really just have total disdain and contempt for all men?"”

I highly doubt you actually are married to begin with. I’d rather believe you have a waifu pillow in your basement somewhere. Imagine being this hateful towards strong women and being so delusional to the point where you have to be the fucking victim all the time because you can never do any wrong. Why the fuck do you even bother with starting useless arguments like this when you know you’re going to get burnt?!

“Even when I get my head on straight about that, I still just feel such sadness for young men (and young women, too, really) that this is what it's come to ... the hatred towards men is just palpable.

Don't get me wrong, I see a lot of misogyny online too, but it's (1) never so open and accepted and (2) it's rarely so intense and pervasive.”

Imagine having no empathy towards women and every time misogyny is discussed, it always has to go back to how men are the victims of “evil” women. My guy, if you think calling out shitty men is “misandry” then you should realize you’re in a support group that openly supports raping and abusing women and GETS AWAY WITH IT! It isn’t as “less acceptable and more rare” than you’d like to think.

“I mean, you would never know that women's position in the world has improved, dramatically over the last 50 years. Many of these women I encounter online literally act like they believe that all men are evil, that all men are personally responsible for all other men, and that it is like, men in their 20s, 30s, and 40s alive today who wouldn't let their great-great-grandmothers have bank accounts, or whatever.”

My guy, where the fuck do you live? “Women’s positions in the world has IMPROVED”? Tell that to all the women living in India, Saudi Arabia, Afghanistan, Egypt, Pakistan, and all the other countries in Africa and the Middle East! If you still somehow can’t seem to grasp that misogyny is still rampant today by screaming “we have you your rights, and we can take it from you, why do you hate us men so much?”, you’re part of the problem!

“TO BE CLEAR, I'm not saying women don't still have many legitimate gripes and complaints that are unique to women, but I also refuse to be responsible for behaviors of other men out of my control. I have lost friends standing up to sexist behavior of other men, and I'm not going to be told online constantly that if I say, "Hey, maybe it's not good for the mental health of young men reading stuff like 'all men should die' and 'kill all men'"---that means that I am guilty of the crimes of like, 1% of men.”

There’s your problem right here! You refuse to accept that your shitty behavior is harming women and failing to hold yourself accountable is harmful to EVERYBODY! Even men! You’re called out for making sexist remarks and here you are throwing a tantrum like a fucking toddler, over how you’re the fucking victim and apparently it’s everyone else’s fault but yours! This is the same mentality as white people getting upset over not being allowed to call black people the n word! Also, 1% of men committing crimes is a HUGE understatement compared to the reality!

These same exact men will refuse to admit what they’ve done and blame their problems on everything else so they can be the fucking victim! This is why the patriarchy needs to die, it benefits shitty men that allows them to get away with anything and pull out every fucking excuse in the book just so they can appear innocent! It’s also a double standard when men commit crimes, it’s undermined, meanwhile if a woman does it, it’s exaggerated to justify that all women are evil!

It’s also safe to say that you can’t take a fucking joke either, especially considering the fact that women are far more likely to be murdered by men than the other way around! You men on the other hand don’t need to make a joke over how you want US dead!

“I honestly feel like society has totally failed that social media (or society in general) has been so effective at maximizing strife between the sexes to this degree ....”

No, sonny, society has just failed you, and you’re facing the consequences of your own actions.

”Hating us is stupid. we are all we have in today's world. Love is what's needed now.”

So hating rapists and murderers is stupid too? But it’s okay to hate women because we’re all so horrible, aren’t we? Sadly, men like you don’t feel love, you only feed on hate to justify your misogyny.

”More than ever. I couldn’t agree more”

Go die in a hole, OP, you sick fuck!

”100% agree with what you saying. It is very sad, the whole deconstruction of society in every angle will drive a more quicker extinction of Western society than thinking anything else will do. We have always been our worse enemy, men and women are supposed to complement not compete with each other. That's only good for consumerism, which at the end of the day is one reason that has driven all this to such heights.”

Women wouldn’t be competing with men if they had just simply treated us like individuals and with respect! Men are the ones benefitting from consumerism since it catered to them their whole lives. But sure, it’s women’s fault for daring to show independence and calling out shitty men!

Man, fuck all these assholes! They can all rot in hell for all I care!