*MISSING SYMPATHY*

*MISSING SYMPATHY*💢💧

“If only you cd give me sympathy..!”

There is distance between us; while we are together in life!”

Interaction among ppl is normal in human relation; however the “degree of relationship” made matters! The closer it is; the stronger the relationship - distance is enemy (!); particularly in family, spouse as the leaders. Ppl say they are in one boat for the life journey;?It should not have different hearts on sailing it! 💥

Build a joining hearts is not easy; particularly when distance born. It is said at least you have to show sympathy and then empathy to others then only the relationship gets closer. Max Weber, pointed further to 3P: *prestige, privilege and profits* (see: *other GH article on this).

*Why ppl having distance?!*

To understand ppl, more over doing something for them needs “ear & heart” in the process! Its actually a command from God to love others as loving to self! If believed Him, we shall do it!

However, process of loving God not automatically born due to ‘evil’ is around and *sins* born in between over the life time! Ego, desiree, greedy/ selfish, temptations are showed off!

One bad move performed, God was not there but the Evil! Likely magnet, spouses / any one wd only listen whom stronger closer by; while the power of God not near enough to protect or helping!

The ‘invisible wall’ [shall be getting distance more n more over the time], automatically built between ppl ~ if we didnt use: *ear & heart* to understand guidance as well as have the wisdom from God!(Proverbs 2: 2-4; 10-11)

God hath promised that discretion will protect us and understanding will guard us to fear of the Lord and we can find knowledge about God! God is teaching us for thinking others not only self; which lead to peace & harmonious living!

In God’s way; ppl follow Him only; loving one another, put sympathy and giving empathy (deeper understanding to others feeling/ condition, more over to love ones);

Then only all being performed in life wd be sucessful n the family shall live likely a tree growing bigger n bigger nearby the water source, thay never been dried (Psalm 1:1-6)

Thus, spouse/ family let’s come back to God; the best way of living (!!); for “the godly life” to have ‘Godly Marriage’ in glorifying God’s name! Learn in how to build living in peace & harmony! A pure heart with faith may have real trust in living together to share symphaty n empathy. The two ppl must have good communication, ofcourse!

Is it automatically when the will alrd born? No! 

Its not given but required! Gender Harmony (GH) started teaching GH tool: Harmony Communicative Action (HCA) in 2011; many ppl found it useful ~ families werevsaved they cancelled divorce!

Only learning by doing and best practices may drag back us to the right way to be decent ppl within godly life and become the children of God! GH has the tools! 💥

Let’s practice living with sympathy n empathy to dismiss any distance within spouse and or family!

Godspeed!😇🙏

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